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Three Things in Common
A simple but effective way to encourage deeper conversation in smaller breakout groups.
6+ Players
Hybrid
Low Energy
How to Play
- 1Divide everyone into smaller groups of 3-4 people.
- 2Challenge each group to find three things they all have in common, excluding obvious things like 'we work here'.
- 3Give them 5-10 minutes to chat.
- 4Bring everyone back to the main group and have each breakout room share their three commonalities.
Facilitator Guide
Opening Script:
"In groups of 3â4, find three nonâobvious commonalities. Skip surface items like âwe work hereâ. Be concrete."
Closing Script:
"What prompts uncovered deeper overlaps? Save them for future intros or buddy programs."
Why This Works
Guided discovery of uncommon overlaps builds belonging fast. The constraint nudges beyond small talk into meaningful specifics.
Best For
- Onboarding cohorts
- Crossâteam mixers
- Breakout sessions
Important Notes
- Define ânonâobviousâ up front
- Rotate a noteâtaker so all voices are heard
- Allow skips to maintain comfort