
This or That: Rapid-Fire Icebreaker Questions (2025)
A fast-paced decision-making game. Participants choose between two options to reveal preferences. Great for energizing meetings and finding common ground.
How to Play This Icebreaker Game
- 1The host calls out two related options (e.g., 'Coffee or Tea?', 'Beach or Mountains?').
- 2For in-person, designate two sides of the room for each option and have people move to the side they prefer.
- 3For virtual, have people use a specific emoji reaction for each choice.
- 4It's a great way to see who shares similar tastes.
Facilitator Guide
Opening Script:
We’ll do fast rounds of 'This or That'. Move to your choice or react with the assigned emoji. No debates yet—speed is the fun.
Closing Script:
What patterns did you notice? Consider pairing up people with opposite choices for richer collaboration later.
Why This Works
Why this icebreaker game works: Quick either‑or prompts reduce hesitation and get people moving. It reveals preferences safely and scales to any group size.
Best For
Ideal icebreaker situations for this game include:
- Large groups and all-hands
- Quick openers (5–10 minutes)
- Hybrid sessions
Important Notes
- Avoid divisive topics (politics, religion) or identity-based prompts.
- Offer a 'middle' or 'pass' for accessibility and nuance.
- Keep rounds short to maintain momentum.



