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This or That

This or That: Rapid-Fire Icebreaker Questions (2025)

4.9(1109)

A fast-paced decision-making game. Participants choose between two options to reveal preferences. Great for energizing meetings and finding common ground.

5+ PlayersHybrid10 minEasy

How to Play This Icebreaker Game

  1. 1The host calls out two related options (e.g., 'Coffee or Tea?', 'Beach or Mountains?').
  2. 2For in-person, designate two sides of the room for each option and have people move to the side they prefer.
  3. 3For virtual, have people use a specific emoji reaction for each choice.
  4. 4It's a great way to see who shares similar tastes.

Facilitator Guide

Opening Script:

We’ll do fast rounds of 'This or That'. Move to your choice or react with the assigned emoji. No debates yet—speed is the fun.

Closing Script:

What patterns did you notice? Consider pairing up people with opposite choices for richer collaboration later.

Why This Works

Why this icebreaker game works: Quick either‑or prompts reduce hesitation and get people moving. It reveals preferences safely and scales to any group size.

Best For

Ideal icebreaker situations for this game include:

  • Large groups and all-hands
  • Quick openers (5–10 minutes)
  • Hybrid sessions

Important Notes

  • Avoid divisive topics (politics, religion) or identity-based prompts.
  • Offer a 'middle' or 'pass' for accessibility and nuance.
  • Keep rounds short to maintain momentum.

Ideas & Prompts

More Questions

Work Style

Remote / Office
Early Bird / Night Owl
Team / Solo
Email / Chat
Plan / Flow
Silence / Music
Video / Audio
Multitask / Focus
Handwritten / Digital
Leave on time / Flexible

Lifestyle

Coffee / Tea
Cats / Dogs
Morning / Night
City / Country
Summer / Winter
Book / Movie
Cook / Takeout
Mountain / Beach
Android / Apple
Sweet / Salty

Fun

Fly / Invisible
Past / Future
No Sleep / No Eat
Talk to Animals / All Languages
Pirate / Ninja
Space / Deep Sea
Unlimited Money / Unlimited Time
Always Truth / Always Lie
Giant / Ant
Summer Only / Winter Only

Food

Pizza / Burger
Coke / Sprite
Chocolate / Vanilla
Fries / Chips
Hotpot / BBQ
Rice / Noodles
Spicy / Mild
Soft Cookie / Crispy Cookie
Fried Egg / Boiled Egg
Wine / Beer

Entertainment

Netflix / YouTube
Comedy / Horror
Novel / Comic
Pop / Rock
Museum / Amusement Park
Board Game / Video Game
Concert / Sports Game
Harry Potter / Star Wars
Marvel / DC
TikTok / Instagram