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This or That

A quick and easy game of preferences that gets people moving and making choices.

5+ Players
Hybrid
Medium Energy

How to Play

  1. 1The host calls out two related options (e.g., 'Coffee or Tea?', 'Beach or Mountains?').
  2. 2For in-person, designate two sides of the room for each option and have people move to the side they prefer.
  3. 3For virtual, have people use a specific emoji reaction for each choice.
  4. 4It's a great way to see who shares similar tastes.

Facilitator Guide

Opening Script:

"We’ll do fast rounds of 'This or That'. Move to your choice or react with the assigned emoji. No debates yet—speed is the fun."

Closing Script:

"What patterns did you notice? Consider pairing up people with opposite choices for richer collaboration later."

Why This Works

Quick either‑or prompts reduce hesitation and get people moving. It reveals preferences safely and scales to any group size.

Best For

  • Large groups and all-hands
  • Quick openers (5–10 minutes)
  • Hybrid sessions

Important Notes

  • Avoid divisive topics (politics, religion) or identity-based prompts.
  • Offer a 'middle' or 'pass' for accessibility and nuance.
  • Keep rounds short to maintain momentum.