Never Have I Ever (SFW)
A safe-for-work version of the classic game where players discover shared (and not-so-shared) experiences.
How to Play
- 1Everyone holds up ten fingers.
- 2Taking turns, each person says something they have never done, starting with 'Never have I ever...'.
- 3If someone in the group *has* done that thing, they must put one finger down.
- 4The game continues until only one person has fingers left up, or for a set number of rounds.
Facilitator Guide
Opening Script:
"Weâll play a workplace-friendly version of Never Have I Ever. Keep prompts light and inclusiveâno politics, no pry. You can always say 'pass'."
Closing Script:
"Great round! Notice how small personal stories help us spot surprising overlaps without oversharing."
Why This Works
The simple mechanic exposes shared experiences in a low-pressure way. Boundaries and a clear 'SFW' frame maintain psychological safety.
Best For
- New teams learning about each other
- Casual socials
- Hybrid meetings
Important Notes
- Ban sensitive or potentially shaming topics (e.g., health, finances).
- Offer 'pass' and model it as acceptable.
- Timebox turns to keep energy up.